Seriously, emotion can be really crazy …or
maybe those it holds up to craziness sha.
A wise woman once said and I quote,
“So many people do not realise that emotion
is just a part of their being, not the whole of their being, and should not be
allow to rule their entire being”
What is she saying? Emotion can be
dangerous and many at times, it is better left to lie than wake; just like the
sleeping dog. You see, the issue with so many of us is that we tend to trust
the judgement given by emotion, a little part of our member, than our
reasoning. No wonder anybody could go contrary to the law of the land, just to
play subservience to mere ‘feeling’.
Many do not realise that it is not how we
feel a thing is but how it really is. There is a clear difference between the
world of emotion and that of the real world of reasonableness. No wonder
feelings are often times not right.
I am talking about picking up past broken
relationship. Let’s make something glaring here, a guy or girl who broke your
heart in the past for some sort of reasons could do the same again and again,
and what made you write on your Facebook, Twitter or Istagram timeline, “at
long last, my love has come around” could return you back behind the
bars of, “Love is wicked…I regret ever meeting you again”.
This should be blamed on emotion. But,
seriously, should we allow our emotion to control us, knowing full well that
it’s just a part of the whole of us? Should we allow it lord itself on us? No!
Since I was born, but now I am very much older, I have never seen a car drive
its driver. If there be any at all, I rather you go check the deep ditch by the
road for dead bodies.
Let the sleeping dog lie. Don’t try to
resuscitate what already lie in the state. What caused the pitfall could reoccur
more than again. Reasonable guys don’t change; emotional ones do. Relationship
experience is like a flowing river, only a fool would want to experience the
same part twice.
If I were you, I would just move on! Yes,
some would say, “the already known devil is better than the angel yet unknown” but
I would say the best does not always come until you have experienced all the
rest.
Let the past lie behind, you have a future
to catch up with!
Don’t try to invite the past into your
present so as not to lose what the future holds for you. When your relationship
fails, you have not failed but have just learnt of one of the relationships
that will never lead to marriage.