Create Quality Time with Your Spouse
Not all the times spent with one’s
spouse is appreciated or enjoy. Create time for your spouse with, paying
attention to their needs and presence. Unfortunately, many at times that we
claim to be with our spouses, what we do more is pay attention to our phone or
other gargets. To be bodily present with one’s spouse is not enough. You have
to give them the whole of your mental and emotional attention. Discuss your
day, your life, and your plans together. Listen attentively and enjoy each
other’s warm company.
Spice Things Up with Love Notes
Inscribe beautiful words about your
spouse on a sticky paper and paste it right on the mirror in your bathroom
where she/he must look before going out to work. Send a short message to her
phone before she arrives back from work. Leave a note in his pants pocket or on
his brief case. This romantic gesture can spark up your intimacy again.
Surprise Your Spouse with Gift
In doing this, you must be very
observant at your spouse’s needs. Then surprise him/her with gifts that cover
these needs. Don’t just reserve gifts for special days like birthday and
wedding anniversary, make every day count with your gift. It doesn’t matter how
much the magnitude of your gifts, what matters most in your loving intention. Let
it be felt that they are coming from a sincere heart of love.
Offer Sincere Appreciation
Be sincere enough to celebrate your
spouse’s well doing with a simple ‘thank you, love’. It goes a long way. Always
offer words of appreciation, no matter how insignificant the kind gesture is. Make
your affirmation positive always and enjoy doing this.
Get Yourselves to Try Something New
Together
Take the great step to try something
non-conventional in your marital life. Spice up your sexual and romantic life. Take
courses together and attend seminar. Try new places or business. Take a new
risk and make sure you have each other’s back. Doing things together can help
step up your intimacy.
Date Other Couples Together
By now you should have come a long
way in your marital experience to know couples that are great together. Those whom
their marriage is relatively perfect. Therefore, you and your spouse can go on
a date together with them and learn through practical experience. Do this
several times together to learn what and what is helping to boost their
intimacy. When you date couples that are in healthy relationship, it surely
will strengthen your bond too.
Increase Your Touch
Be romantic and affectionate with
your spouse. You don’t have to withhold your touch until you both are sexually
ready for each other. Tap her butt. Gently lay your hand on his chest and play
with it. Hold hands. Grab your spouse from behind and carry her to the car, not
to bed only. This will help you get knitted into each other more.
